Talk Tuesday - All about me
This blog post may be taken out of context but that is not my intent. The title really sums up how I feel at this very moment. Going forward I'm gonna focus on me, I'm going to support me, I'm going to promote me, and it will be all about MY goals.
Time and time again I have always supported others because that is the type of person I am. Whether you had a new business or your child was graduating high school...I'm there rooting for you. However, I have come to the realization that some friends don't return that simple jester of being a supportive friend. We all have them and I really don't think it's intentional. They always want you to attend this and donate that....but they can NEVER make it to any of your events and ALWAYS have an excuse to why the couldn't or can't make it. I'm sure I've done it myself at some point in a friendship, and I promise it was never intentional.
I believe in supporting my friends and even strangers if they have a dream in life. It may not be my dream, but as someone who loves and cares for you, I truly belive that the jouney is alot easier when you have someone in your corner who supports you. I'm that person. If you own a business... I will promote it. You want to raise money to take a spritual trek across America...I will donate and promote it. Because at the end of the day, I support YOU.
Will I lose friends over this, it's possible. I don't want to, and this is not personal, but I MUST put me first going forward. And if you can take this ride with me, that is wonderful. However, if you can't, there is truly no love lost and I will completely understand. Just as I hope you understamd that i must keep pushing foward. Part of this growth is my attempt to separate personal feelings from business. I'm beginning to understand how to do that. People who are truly successful understand the sacrifices that they have to make in order to reach their goals....I'm ready to start making those sacrifices. I hope at the end of it all I still have the same friends as I started with, but if I dont, I will understand that our SEASON has come to and end. So remember to put YOU first when it comes to accomplishing your goals, because no one will cheer you on like you. Until next time....Stay Positively Fabulous.
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